I apologise if that is how you took my post, I in no way meant to brush aside your comments. I agree with your point that there is a difference between being unable to relate to anyone be that male or female due to a lack of social awareness and having a 'men are superior' mindset and throwing that at any woman that comes within 10ft of you, I totally agree.
My main point to ponder is where and how do we draw that line? Would the line that I might draw be the same as the line that a woman would draw, and then who would be right? If we assume in this case that nothing that happened at TAM was deliberately sexist, (just assume) should anyone be held accountable for the hurt caused and if so to what extent? What then if we assume that what happened at TAM was deliberate? Does this warrant more severe disciplinary action if in both cases the same events unfolded but were motivated in one case by ignorance and the other male chauvinism? Because in the end the women in the audience receive the same message.
I guess you have to decide what sexism is, that seems to me to be the hard part when sexism has become for want of a better word, habitual. (This might not be an valid train of thought but), I can tell my mate from footy to "get me a f&#king beer". That's just how we talk and it's not as crude as it may come across. But I wouldn't say that to my grandma, she'd be quite offended. Same comment, but received differently. It seems to me that sexism may have some of the same components, the way comments are perceived by the individual makes all the difference. Ie; a comment may be sexist if heard by woman (a) but not if heard by woman (b), in this case is the comment sexist? An obvious rule of thumb may be if it offends a woman it was a sexist comment. But I heard from at least 1 woman who did not have issue with anything at TAM, so are the comments now not sexist? Obviously not but you can see how easily mistakes can be made.
On a side note, I can't believe this wasn't mentioned in this weeks podcast. We didn't hear a lot of the other panelists thoughts last week and I was really hoping that this week we would. Strange