Okay, I guess I'm not done. Heh.
Speaking of those OFVCupid dudes, I find it seriously, seriously off-putting when a profile is full of references to sex. Those guys who list "sex" as one of the six things they can't do without? I always think, "well, dude, presumably you're doing without it now, so hey." And I don't want to hear about what a good kisser you are, or what turns you on in a woman, etc., etc.
As panda says, I assume that men think about sex. I think about sex, too. That's all groovy. But when that's the topic that's prominent in this document that presents you to women, I say nix. I'm going to be very uncomfortable with you, because I'm going to think that all you want to do is bang me.
Yes, I expect that if/when I meet you, or even when you're looking at my photos, you're gauging my attractiveness, and maybe you're even thinking about having sex with me. Just don't lead with that card, is all I'm saying.
FTR, I don't think any of the men here behave in such an objectionable fashion.