It is difficult to speak well, it doesn't mean when people don't speak well it's not annoying.
Look, I think everyone has verbal ticks that they could stand to lose. I appreciate it when mine get corrected, because I like being well-spoken, it's someting I strive to do. Sometimes I don't care and I'm goofing off, but when I'm speaking publicly I try to express myself in a way that allows my ideas to be heard unobstrcted. It's a skill and it requires work. If you're a public speaker, work on it. It's not on your audience to accept your laziness in how you present your material, it's on you to deliver it well. Vocal fry, HRT, "like" are all encumbering your speech.