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Offline superdave

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I was just thinknig about how weird life is..how there is stuff that can be central to your existence that just fades away..

I had girlfriends I swore I would love forever tha I later broke up with.
I thought I'd always care about the Knicks and basketball season.
I didn't think I'd ever to be live outside of NYC.
A lot of religious habits that fell away..

anyways,
just a very tired first monday after daylight savings time change post.
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Re: things that use to be really important to you and just aren't anymore
« Reply #1 on: March 11, 2019, 12:34:32 PM »
I get this. There are things I would have very confidently gotten tatoos of years ago but im so glad i didnt!

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Re: things that use to be really important to you and just aren't anymore
« Reply #2 on: March 11, 2019, 12:47:12 PM »
Keeping up with pop culture - especially things like TV and movies.  30 years ago (when it was admitedly a much easier task) I would have seen at least several episodes of every sitcom, drama, anything on network TV.  20 years ago I would have seen every movie up for Best Picture.  10 years ago I would have seen some, and be culturally aware of the others.  This year, I don't think I could even name 2 of them, and I haven't watched a sitcom for maybe 8 or 9 years(?).  And I doooon't giiiiive a shiiiiiit about it. 

I've fully embraced the concept "there is more content than I will ever be able to enjoy", and so I just watch stuff I like when I feel like it, and don't worry about the stuff I don't get to.
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Re: things that use to be really important to you and just aren't anymore
« Reply #3 on: March 11, 2019, 01:39:08 PM »
Keeping up with pop culture - especially things like TV and movies.  30 years ago (when it was admitedly a much easier task) I would have seen at least several episodes of every sitcom, drama, anything on network TV.  20 years ago I would have seen every movie up for Best Picture.  10 years ago I would have seen some, and be culturally aware of the others.  This year, I don't think I could even name 2 of them, and I haven't watched a sitcom for maybe 8 or 9 years(?).  And I doooon't giiiiive a shiiiiiit about it. 

I've fully embraced the concept "there is more content than I will ever be able to enjoy", and so I just watch stuff I like when I feel like it, and don't worry about the stuff I don't get to.
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Re: things that use to be really important to you and just aren't anymore
« Reply #4 on: March 11, 2019, 02:52:46 PM »
Keeping up with pop culture - especially things like TV and movies.  30 years ago (when it was admitedly a much easier task) I would have seen at least several episodes of every sitcom, drama, anything on network TV.  20 years ago I would have seen every movie up for Best Picture.  10 years ago I would have seen some, and be culturally aware of the others.  This year, I don't think I could even name 2 of them, and I haven't watched a sitcom for maybe 8 or 9 years(?).  And I doooon't giiiiive a shiiiiiit about it. 

I've fully embraced the concept "there is more content than I will ever be able to enjoy", and so I just watch stuff I like when I feel like it, and don't worry about the stuff I don't get to.
Same, but limited to Dragon Ball Z in 1999-2000.

google dragon ball z abridged.
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Re: things that use to be really important to you and just aren't anymore
« Reply #5 on: March 11, 2019, 03:06:18 PM »
Keeping up with pop culture

And a big one that is so not important to me that I didn't even think of it at first - Twitter!  For 5 or 6 years I was a really heavy Twitter user.  Quit it cold turkey last year, haven't regretted it or looked back.
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Re: things that use to be really important to you and just aren't anymore
« Reply #6 on: March 11, 2019, 04:09:19 PM »
Music, I was a DJ on my college radio station, now I barely listen to music at all.

There's probably a bunch of other stuff but research shows we tend to forget that we once thought differently than we currently do, so I've probably forgotten that I used to care about stuff. 

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Re: things that use to be really important to you and just aren't anymore
« Reply #7 on: March 11, 2019, 04:59:16 PM »
Not that it was important per se, but thirty years ago I'd never have imagined that every lunch & dinner wouldn't include a chunk of meat; now it's usually just a bit part of a meal every day or two. A burger or roast beef sandwich, etc., is a rare treat. (Fortunately I love salad and vegetables more than enough.)

Weird that I can't think of any thing that was ever particularly important to me…

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Re: things that use to be really important to you and just aren't anymore
« Reply #8 on: March 11, 2019, 05:04:37 PM »
Keeping up with pop culture - especially things like TV and movies.

This was a big one for me too. Especially keeping up with popular music. When I was in my teens and twenties I used to pride myself on knowing artists and song lyrics. In my mid-late twenties I started getting into weirder, more obscure music like experimental improv, and avant garde jazz and classical. To this day I still follow some of the more artsy weird stuff, but my awareness of current pop music really fell off after the "Radio Disney" generation started coming of age. I've never had kids, so I was never forced to put up with that super-saccharine pop with the autotuned lyrics.

 

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