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I am ignoring the warning not the person, however the way I worded the original statement it is clear the miscommunication was mine. Further I have not broken one forum rule so far hence my 'attitude'. If this was anything more than louie getting mad then I would have gotten a real mod warning. Further air dont make getting warnings a habit so the likelyhood of banning  is extraordinarily low. Louie is trying to be a bully with his mod powers and I am calling him on his bluff.

So Louie can you actually do anything more than doing a fancy modbox?

Oh no I am shaking in my boots. If you had any authority something would have actually been done already. Therefore I must be pretty safe with ignoring you.

I mean come on she can't even stay in one gender how can you expect her to not flip flop on quitting  ::)?

 Too far. Consider yourself officially warned.

Don't really care consider yourself officially ignored.

I mean come on she can't even stay in one gender how can you expect her to not flip flop on quitting  ::)?

I have been thinking about it more and i think a better analogy would be if someone with a mental disorder should disclose this before a sexual encounter. However for anything longer than NSA the partner should be made aware because of everything that goes along with it.

Great, thanks. I'll add "irrational and unskeptical because I'm not attracted to transexual women" to the list of insults flung at me during the course of this thread. According to this thread:

If you are not attracted to transexual women because of their transexuality, you are bigoted, unskeptical, irraitonal, and only feel that way because you're afraid of being gay, and also you think transexual people are disgusting.

Did I miss anything?
Is this really all that surprising? I mean did you see the circle jerk they are having in the GB thread?

General Discussion / Re: An alphabetization question..
« on: December 08, 2011, 09:18:18 PM »
Even without the royalties it doesn't matter, since the persons name is also their title you wouldn't reverse it; In this case you treat it as a title. Kind of like how the same word can be a verb or a noun.

General Discussion / Re: Hi folks!
« on: December 08, 2011, 08:56:24 PM »
Great to hear from you :).

You should never trick or force a person into a sexual situation if it is one that  they would avoid if they were privy to all information.
This is it right here so concisely.

And how hard is it to understand some people don't want to be with a TG person? I don't want to be with anyone who believes in a god.However it is socially acceptable and common to ask someone's belief because believers are common. How many Tg people are there? I am sure less than enough to even be statistically significant. Someone with CF would want to tell a partner pretty soon because a person may not want to get attached to someone with a much shorter lifespan. When it is not common and it is taboo to ask and it is something that a lot of people have an issue with the person needs to be upfront. Why the hell  would you want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to be with you when they know the full truth?

Since I have had issues with religion in the past I tend to be pretty up front about my beliefs or rather lack thereof. However it is not as taboo to ask someone their beliefs so it isn't a perfect correlation to the other issue.

I think the problem here is that many people have very different standards on the level of knowledge one has about their partner before they do whatever with them. Being a post op transexual would be on the list of something I would want to know about a girl before I got in a relationship with them, but I like to actually know who my partner is.  Since it is taboo to ask if someone is trans then the only option left is for it to be something that should probably be disclosed up front.

I would say it means as such to a lot of people so you know person to person it probably matters. Would it be the biggest deal in the world to me, not really, but I can imagine a few people freaking out post kiss.

While I don't think there is a definite line I think it is in the realm of definitely before the first sexual encounter or long term commitment. It is more of an issue of hiding your past and ultimately who you are than transgendered sex being somehow dirty.

Religion / Philosophy Talk / Re: Fear of Death
« on: December 05, 2011, 10:46:16 PM »
I only fear death if I think about death. As I think some have experienced, if you think about death enought you'll reach a momment when you think you fully understand death. That it is eternal, un-stopable, and you will comprehend what nothingness truly is. At this momment you are usually taken over by fear. I've only thought about it to this extent twice and when I do I get a rush of fear that nothing else in my life can match. Since then I have taken it upon myself to actively avoid situations where I might think about death and stop myself from thinking about it if I begin to.

As a mathematician I have an acquaintance with infinity most people do not. It is interesting to look back on this thread because at one time death did scare me. Now I see it as a this sort of beautiful thing about life and the chance for the universe to comprehend itself. 

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